Beginners Guide to Kinky Corset Play
Corsets are a garment that is kind of a holdover from another time. Women used to wear them simply because that was the fashion of the time and it was very sexy to have a tiny waist, modified by corsets, and a big bosom and round ass. Today, most people do not wear corsets because they are wildly uncomfortable; however, it is somewhat of a fetish in certain communities. If you find yourself interested in corsets, then that’s normal. Whether you like to look at them or wear them, you’ll find people who have the same interests as you no matter your gender. Starting with corsetry can be a daunting task, but we’ve got some tips to get you started, whether you’re doing it on yourself or helping someone else.
First of all, let it be said that people of any gender can wear and enjoy corsets. Both guys and girls look great with a trim waist if that’s what makes them feel sexy. The only time you shouldn’t wear one is if you are pregnant. If you are trying them out for the first time, some people tend to get excited and go with one that is much too small for them. Get a corset that fits your current size, because trust us, it will still be a constricting experience. If you plan on wearing your corset for a few hours at a time, work up to it, because you don’t want any unwanted surprises at your fun event. Practicing to wear your new garment will reveal any rubbing areas that might bother you after a while, and it will get you used to the slightly more shallow way you may have to breathe depending on how tight your corset is. Corsets look awesome but they do take some getting used to!
This is a type of collar you will see frequently on people who have lifestyle relationships in BDSM. It is quite cute, as it is a simple metal circle that looks like it could really be a piece of jewelry. It’s very delicate and elegant looking to most people, even those who don’t really know what it is for. The key is that you can’t take it off without the proper hex wrench.
A posture collar is one that is mostly only worn during playtime. It helps a sub keep their neck immobile and gives them awesome posture so they look perfectly prim. It’s not one that would be very discreet if worn in public, but in a private chat on a cam show it looks absolutely amazing.
Other people simply use a special necklace as a symbol of their devotion. The symbolism is only known between the Dom and the sub who share a special relationship. Sometimes, much like a wedding ring, a necklace or other piece of jewelry signifies what is really going on!